What happened:Two camp leaders have to organize an international evening for the group. However, they have different approaches to the tasks at hand. One leader is ambitious and creative, with many ideas for the event, while the other is more pragmatic and prefers to focus on basic activities. As a result, they struggle to collaborate and make decisions about what would be included in the evening's activities.
Proposed solutions:- Collaborate with the other camp leader to determine the optimal solution. Effective communication between the leaders is crucial, so ensure that your ideas and suggestions are communicated clearly and directly.
- Take time to get to know each other and talk before the workcamp starts also in a non formal way (preparatory visit, preparatory meeting, call day before).
- Discuss the working style of both of you in advance and based on that you can divide later the tasks and responsibilities. To understand each other more you can use for example these questions:
○ What are our motivations for workcamp?
○ What are we expecting from the workcamp?
○ How do we imagine the ideal campleader?
○ What are our personal needs during the workcamp?
○ How can we support each other when we have a bad day?
○ Am I more into planning or spontaneous solutions and how we can use it during the workcamp effectively?
○ When there is even a small problem do I tend to say it out loud or I tend to keep it and overcome it by myself?
○ Is there anything we are afraid of during the workcamp we should discuss in advance to agree how we will deal with that (e. g. food, alcohol, cleaning standards)?
- Set the rules for communication and cooperation:
○ If someone from you says for example “Stop, can we discuss it?” - it is not offensive or something to take personally.
○ Set up some regular evaluation with the co-leader to discuss even the small things - it is easier to solve a lot of small things until they become one big problem.
- Prioritize key activities and focus on those first. Consider alternative options and consult with both the other leader and participants.
- Seek advice from participants and ask them what they would like to do during the event.
- There are various working styles but none of these is right, better or wrong. You can cooperate successfully even if your working styles are different.
- If you feel the difficulties between you two are starting to escalate, don’t be afraid to ask for support from an external mediator.